Outliers: The story of success

This book by Malcolm Gladwell, who is becoming one of my favorite authors, gives an explanation of extraordinary people. According to Gladwell’s evidence, success isn’t just a result of individual effort or genetics but mostly[…]

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Be all in or be all out

When people make a commitment to do something, their behavior changes. When they decide not to do something, their behavior changes. We need to be careful of times when we are neither in or out.[…]

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The fight: My hard days

The harder the fight, the sweeter the victory! Don’t be sorry for my hard days. I need them. I need hard days because they make me better. They make me stronger, and tougher. So I[…]

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Getting Stronger Together

We recently made a banner at El Dorado Hills Brazilian Jiu Jitsu with the phrase, “getting stronger together.” I really want to emphasize the “together” part in this phrase. There are meaningful, long lasting effects[…]

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Perfection prevention

“Don’t let perfection prevent you from trying to get better.” I heard someone say this in a conversation as I was walking out of the grocery store. They were talking about golf, but I thought[…]

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